intro to the spective. i used to say that i really liked people who were introspective. this is until recently when i realized "hey, everyone is introspective." who doesn't like to think about themselves? shit, if you can't think about yourself what else are you gonna think about? introspectioin is perhaps a little deeper than just thinking about yourself but anyone who doesn't contemplate their own thoughts and feelings probably ain't doing too much anyway. we're all trying to figure ourselves out as we figure out the rest of the world. so thus i've concluded that introspection is going right up on the shelf with "nice" as an attribute. everyone's "nice." everyone's "introspective."



not everyone however, is interesting. some people are quite frankly boring. or trite. or boring. or have a lot to say but you've heard it all before. this is of course based on my own personal observations. and my biases play strongly in this particular opinion. actually my biases play strongly in all my opinions.



i've been told that maybe sometimes people just don't open up to everyone and so they appear shallow or boring on the surface. but no. i hold strongly to the opinion that while god may have made men equal, he did not make them all equally interesting. you don't have to entertain me or be interesting to me right off the bat but honestly, aren't there many times when you meet people and you go "oh, i've seen this before. let's mosey on out of this conversation..." giddy yap.