Freedom inside a relationship is not having to worry about the other person thinking about leaving you. Many people believe that a relationship needs 24-hour input. Unless they are constantly in each other’s neighborhoods, they worry that their bond will melt. Wrong. Togetherness, like music, is defined by silences as well as sounds. Relationships last longer when there is a tune instead of a steady drone. Freedom allows you to be yourself. It offers you a code that is fair and supportive of the other person’s right to harmony.



And there are dead-ends in associations, too. Sometimes freedom is being able to leave in a kind way. Calling the end of the game. We want a person who adores us and comes home at night because they want to be there. Anyone can be faithful with feet nailed to the ground. Real freedom is being able to saunter around and explore the world while regarding a partner as a loving friend and ally. And always, to receive that in return.