I mean i feel like that once you become a label, there are tendencies to want to be possessive and to want to create a union between two independent beings. Decisions often become "we" and "us" instead of "you" and "me." I'm not sure if my mindset and philosophies are capable of sustaining a full fledged relationship of sacrifice and commitment. I feel like oftentimes you are faced with the choice of giving up a part of yourself in order to mesh completely with the significant other. Some of my friends are willing to do this and that sounds so crazy to me.