Essentially i guess a relationship is what a companionship is about, but along the way you have to leave bread crumbs of trust behind so that the other person will be able to follow and understand that you care. I would like to think that this kind of thing can happen without the wave of sacrifice and change that a relationship demands. Oftentimes i feel that in searching for the "perfect one" you are often molding a person into that perfect image you want. And also at times there is a tendency to want to be left with tokens of sacrifice and compatibility. Isn't it possible to build that up by opening the metaphorical doors wider as opposed to closing them? If the only way to achieve security is to be shut into a room together than i would have to question exactly where that false sense of security comes from.